A perfect day would either be watching a horror movie/ TV series marathon at home and then eating home cooked meal by me (which would be appreciated ideally, aka u must like a girl who cooks and like her cooking and would be desirable if you in turn wash the dishes) / getting food delivered and just chill while talking about life and getting to know each other deeper or go out and do/find/try new things or new food such as going to karaoke, batting cages, the arcade, movies, all u can eat buffets, festivals, metal or rock gigs etc. Prefer a mix of both activities.
Into humanitarian efforts, volunteers, charities, human and animal rights, horror genre, metal and rock music, all types of food, especially spicy ones ( i bet my spice tolerance is higher than u ), loves dogs, cats and other furry ones, can play badminton and baseball/softball, love water (beach etc), love camping, love travelling with good company and love to make good memories.
Background in science, engineering and social work
I don't like people who go to the gym constantly aka vain people. I am OK if you go to the gym occasionally for health or if you work there, haha. Muscle photos won't impress me at all
I don't like arrogant people or narcissists. I like confidence, but if you cross the border to arrogance, I will say bye. You have a fancy car or a big house? So what? If you are nice and have those things, that's good. If you are arrogant about those things, don't approach me
I also don't like ignorance or close-mindedness. If you are a racist or not open to cultures other than you, and think you are superior, why the **** are you even on my page? I like people who embrace all cultures, instead of imposing all of us to adhere western standards on everything. I am already whitewashed myself, but i am not ashamed the identity I was born with and I want to meet people who accepts my duality
I also do not want to be dealing with people with identity issues e.g if you are Asian and you hate being Asian, honey, you have a problem and I don't want to be in a relationship with you.
Although I don't care if you are rich or not, I do do need you to have a stable job that is enough to support your lifestyle and also have enough money for dates/ money to invest in a relationship. This is important because I want a good person, not a parasite that will leech of me financially. To me, a guy who leeches off a girl financially is immoral and ungentlemanly. Especially a girl with not much and is a student
I like people who treat/pay for dates , just for my company and doesn't expect anything in return. Good people with good and pure intention will get good consequences and vice versa. I hate sleazes, cheapskates, entitled douche bags and guys who pay, only to use it as ammunition for a reward on a later date
I like manly men (cis or trans) and womanly women (cis or trans) and believe in gender roles. I believe e.g if the guy treats and takes care of the girl by being protective and being gentlemanly (pays for dates, carries her stuff, drive her, be loyal to her) etc to her, she should also be loving and takes care of him too (encourages, cooks, supports, rewards him in womanly ways, be loyal to him). I don't believe that men and women are equal but i do believe that we compliment each other and hence if it is a heterosexual relationship, I don't expect we do the same things but do things to be fair to each other (e.g i cook, you wash dishes)
You must ideally, like an cutesy old fashioned girl who always wears dresses and skirts, can cook and take care of beings but don't look down on me, as I have a brain and am quite educated. I am also passionate in private although loves public displays of affection (pda such as holding hands etc) as well
I like people who are loyal, faithful, respectful, responsible, caring and understanding. People in a relationship with me also should not be ashamed of being with me in public and on social media. If you are a closeted racist, go away!
I prefer scorpios, cancers, pisces, leos for commited relationships
Aries and libras for loyal friendships or maybe relationships
Saggitarius, taurus, virgo, aquarius, maybe friends?
Gemini and capricorn .. maybe casual friends. I don't like people who are "looking for fun" only. That disgusts me
I don't care about ethnicity, age, gender or looks
Although, I have a soft spot for I.T people. Love geeks and nerds (im a horror / scifi nerd - but more horror). If I have a physical type it would be cuddly bearded (optional) , doting men. Need to be able to stop a game session for me though. I love games and other geeky stuff but interaction with me has to be valued higher
Will NEVER do a threesome, I am NOT polyamorous, not into bi- or polygamy, not into friends with benefits, not into "just for fun".
So yea, if you actually did read all this and this fits you, i applaud you for finishing it and looking forward to knowing you more
Prefer people living in Auckland at the moment